mabe we should both leave our men and look for real ones huh?
Joie Ehmke says:
we should but we never will, the years you suffer in life does not mean that's how much you deserve. it's what kind of person you are.
Turtle says:
for which you still deserve more than I
Turtle says:
why would we never leave it we weren't getting what we need?
Turtle says:
I'd leave in a heartbeat if a man ever hit me, even if I left everything but the child
Joie Ehmke says:
well of course, but our husbands aren't like that
Turtle says:
but I get almost everything, and I am aware that no man can make us whole
Turtle says:
no other person can
Turtle says:
wholeness comes from within and once you have that, you can be happy with or without anyone
Turtle says:
they do not complete us. once we are complete then we are free to enjoy them
Turtle says:
I know, I was complete. . .
Turtle says:
I'm not sure what was lost, but that is what I am striving for
Joie Ehmke says:
how long ago were you complete? when did it change?
Turtle says:
I was complete after Rochester's birth untill shortly after the coma
Joie Ehmke says:
hmmm...that coma really shook you Amy
Turtle says:
yes it did
Turtle says:
and the things that shook me the worst are the things I can not speak, can not share for there seems no way