DON'T EVER TALK ABOUT IT!!!! Don't ever say anything. You have no right to it. You have no right to bring it up. You have no right to demand. It's mine. Not yours. I don't have to tell anyone. I don't ever have to talk about it. It's for me. It's just for me and I don't ever have to share, don't ever have to talk, don't have to do it. You have no right to talk about it. None. MINE. *sob* don't talk about it.